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Coping
With Layoffs and Downsizing
Few stresses
are more dramatic than facing a layoff. Being laid off is a frightening,
emotionally
painful experience. Your well-being is threatened; your self-worth can
seem questioned; and
your very emotional equilibrium can be seriously thrown off balance. The
following are
important ideas to consider:
Take Action
Whether or not you were prepared for the layoff, begin taking action.
Allow yourself a
couple days to weather the shock, make a plan and follow through.
Have a plan. Structure your time; plan what you are going to do
for the day, and follow
through. If its finding a new job, plan time for updating your resume,
and do it.
Contact the unemployment office. Educate yourself on what community
resources may
be available, such as a food bank or job services.
Taking
Care of Self
Focus on your health by watching what you eat, getting adequate
rest and exercise.
Dont use of alcohol and drugs to cope.
Dont blame yourself. Remember that layoff is not a personal
failure. It is a situation
caused by circumstances beyond your control.
Develop Support Systems. The best way to fight stress is to talk
with family and friends
about what you are going through.
Stay positive about yourself. Identify at least one practical and
useful thing you have
done to address the situation each day.
Practice Stress Management techniques.
Focus your thoughts on what you can do.
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